I want to hang out with some of my classmates from different classes outside of the classroom and library. But I don’t know what to say to them without sounding kinda of sad and desperate (even though it is) that I am junior and still have no plans on the weekends. I know some of my classmates have quite a social life from their snapchat stories and I want to be a part of that. So how can I hang out or better yet hang with them on the weekends?
I think people respond well to specific plans. So like, “want to hang out this weekend?” never works out for me, but “Do you want to try to get a group together to see the new Hunger Games movie?” or “wanna try out that ice cream place on campus?”
If you’re talking about parties, I have less experience with that but I find people are really chill about having one more person tag along with them. On my floor, people would have their doors open pregaming. It wouldn’t be abnormal to just wander in and join the crowd.