<p>I agree - end the cycle of lies ASAP. </p>
<p>You’ll want them to understand that you know you screwed up by lying. Consider asking for the extra money as a loan from them, to be paid back after college. (DD has a $5000 loan like that with us. She pays back $100/month.) That way they’ll know you do have some skin in the game. They may or may not want to go the loan route… but consider giving the them option.</p>