Elder care expenses and savings lost during four years of unemployment have wiped out our savings, and I was disgusted when two fine colleges that are not needs blind declined my daughter who was Salutatorian, exceptional in many ways, and accepted students whose grades, scores, and ECs were inferior to hers, but whose parents were able to pay full tuition. No big deal. She was given a full scholarship to an excellent small LA college for both merit and need, and we paid $10,000 for her second year. She was also given Federal loans (small and manageable) for both years. Our 2014 income was less than our 2013 income, the Financial Aid Director knows my daughter and me well by now, and I feel confident DD1 will fare well vis a vis financial aid for her Junior year.
Now we face the same dilemma with DD2 (now a Junior) who will surely be Valedictorian and has high PSAT scores. The small LAC schools she is interested in are not needs-blind. She will not be eligible for interviews until this summer and next fall because it seems all or most schools wish students to wait for their interview until their Senior year.
I am wondering, at this juncture, would it be helpful to “preview” my DD2s application with a letter to the Director of Financial Aid at the colleges she interested in explaining our circumstances–income enough to live comfortably on but not go much further and loss of savings–and ask the Director to project how he/she might view my daughter’s application?
This question stems from the fact that I feel I have an intuition that Directors of Financial Aid can make an “Executive Decision” to accept a student with a very attractive application, even though technically her financial aid needs would disqualify her from acceptance. Any feedback appreciated.