How did you justify paying for a reach over a financial safety?

<p>@Momzie that is exactly why I have made this a point with my kids-I had never done anything for myself and when the time came to have to start I had no idea what to do and once I figured it out I was afraid to make the phone call-nos that may sound ridiculous to others but it was a real issue for me and I didn’t want my children to follow my footsteps so I have made them do things-again that is because of my personal experience. I do not think there is a right way to do really any of this there are differences of opinions on everything and many times we do things as parents differently because of our own different experiences when we were growing up right?</p>

<p>I have no idea if it helped or hurt my children how I did it but they make the calls and it is not an issue. I always made sure they got done what needed to get done and I went to the appointments with them when they were minors-I just wanted them to get used to doing these things.</p>

<p>I have never changed a tire and never intend to learn and I have no idea if my children know how other than to call AAA but I will have to make sure they know what to do about that.</p>