So I dated my boyfriend for 4 years and I broke up with him over this past summer. That is the dumbest thing I have ever done and I highly regret it now. I had planned for us to get back together when I started College this past fall but we were just friends. We still talked 24/7 up until the end of January.It has now been a little over a month of no contact and I was thinking about texting him " What is the name of the donut shop you wanted to take me too?" I think that is a text that would make him remember us and reply. He quit talking to me in January because he started hanging out with this other girl at school(he’s a senior in high school this year). She will possibly be going to Alaska for college and He is coming where I go in SC. I feel like there’s no way they would work out being that long distance, plus the fact of starting the relationship 4 months before graduation.They should know and accept that fact too right? She seems to be trying to stay more friendly with him, and he seems to be trying to get more deep with her(that’s how me and him were together, we got very deep with each other and lovey. Maybe it’s true that your first love sets the standards?). Should I text him what I said above? Do I have any chance with him? I truly truly believe he is my soulmate and the ‘‘one’’. He did tell be a few months ago that he ‘‘was considering another relationship with me but just wasn’t sure, and that we should try seeing other people first at least for now.’’ I asked him my chances with him when he starts college where I am and he said a 7/10 or 70% chance. Is that a good chance? I wish it were higher but I’ll take it. Anyways, do I have a chance? What should I do to get him back? I have been really focusing on myself and bettering myself the last month. For anyone wondering why we broke up, it was because I wasn’t allowed to date until I graduated high school and my parents forbade me to be with this guy. I broke up the day before graduation because I was afraid. So that is why I decided we’d get back in the fall. But I didn’t tell him this plan until the beginning of January. He told me he wished I had told him that from the start and he would have understood. We had promise rings and constantly talked about our future together and getting married and having children. We were pretty mature for our ages. He is 18 and I just turned 20. I’m a college freshman this year 2nd semester.
Call him and tell him all this. There is a chance he might feel the same, but you will never know unless you call or see him face to face and talk to him about it.