Anyone else want to go visit @ChoatieMom?
Regarding pillows elsewhere in the house, the worst in our house is the ratty old pillow my husband leaves sitting on the coffee table, because you know… his feet need to have a place to rest. When our old cat was alive, there were 2 on the coffee table, one for husband’s feet and one for the cat. The two grumpy old men hung out together.
Sorry - carry on.