<p>You get interested in a guy/gal, ask them out and go on a few dates. You have a good time, and think you like this person. How do you know, or decide, that this is the right person for you? Is it mere a gut feeling? Or you carefully evaluate him/her and your experience with them before committing yourself? Do you take into account factors like personality, character etc?</p>
<p>to date/have a relationship with or what?</p>
<p>Wow, this is the tough question. Here are five questions I’d ask: do you have a good gut feeling? do you get butterflies in your stomach when with him/her? at the right time, does he/she curl your toes or turn you on – i.e., do you want to slap skin? do you want the same things? can you see being with him or her in a year or two or ten?</p>
<p>Don’t use too many cold measures, but do take into account whether you are one another’s type and you think his or her character is good.</p>
<p>And then go get your groove on…</p>
<p>i think personality is extremely important. you never really know if that person is the right one, there might just be someone just like that person somewhere else but a little better. it’s a question of life which will never be answered.i agree with BedHead, and i would ask the same questions. i would also ask, when you see that person (guy,girl) what do you feel? do you get nervous? weak in the knees? do you smile?</p>
<p>Falling in love in college is scary.</p>