<p>I know it sounds like an idiotic question, but I want to know. When is there some “aha” moment and everything is obvious? I used to hate this guy who was in my studyhall because all he would do is sit there and talk and be extremely annoying. The I started talking to him and found out he isn’t a tool. Now I’m thinking I may have an interest in him and I’m trying to decide if I always liked him and hid it behind my hate (think 3rd grade when you would hit someone you liked) or if me getting to know him changed my opinion.</p>
<p>There’s nothing wrong with experimentation. If you feel like you may have interest in him, talk with him in the hallway, invite him to the movies and et cetera. When I found out I liked someone, I walked with him in the hallway, and talked to him, and we went to the park with his dog. After that, the relationship didn’t work, but I attempted to find out more about the person and stuff like that. Good Luck.</p>
<p>Lol this is a nice post. When I started going out with my first girlfriend, there really wasn’t an “aha” moment! I had known her for 3 years and we had liked one another for a while. Our relationship kind of just happened one day, ironically in a study hall after school. I told her she looked sexy in her outfit for the day and she said something about my looks too. Then we went to a movie later that week and that’s how it happened! I hope this helps:)</p>
<p>It’s sort of an ongoing process that happens over time… Like you see the person every day and you begin to notice more and more about them. Until you finally realize you like them and everything about them seems perfect. But yeah, it is hard to describe.</p>
<p>Or the first time you see them, your jaw drops and all you want to do is look at them because they’re so beautiful. There was this guy a year older than me who was just always around me but we didn’t know each other. Never did, but I thought he was drop dead gorgeous. Never talked to him cause I knew I didn’t want to date him, but he was a great site to look at. Too bad he just graduated. Sigh.</p>
<p>Haha this kind of describes me and my friend (she’s a girl, im a guy). We basically have, as she describes it, a love-hate relationship that is really mostly love. I’d say we’re just really good friends though, she is dating someone else. except it’s not hate as in being annoying like your friend is, we just have arguments on various issues.</p>