<p>What we’re talking about isn’t all that “nebulous.”</p>
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<p>No. I am presuming that none of us believes that anything goes. Our ethical standards do not have to be co-extensive for us to have meaningful discussion about them. </p>
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<p>People judge the ethics (or lack thereof) of others all the time. So presumably, rational human beings do indeed “share” enough ethical standards for such judgment to take place. Are you suggesting that you’re never judged anyone else from a moral point of view?</p>
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<p>Of course, we do not know DEFINITELY what the OP will do. But everything s/he’s said suggests that s/he is reluctant to make a commitment that would require maximum good faith. </p>
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<p>I have a less generous interpretation.</p>
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<p>That’s the problem. The threads that I’ve read in the Duke sub-forum tend to consist of mainly over-the-top generalizations.</p>