<p>Very similar. There was no way my D would have had the time to deal with the minutia of some of the paperwork, etc, during a very busy senior year when she was president of show choir and taking several AP/college courses. And my wife is an organizational genius. So my D took charge of the school she wanted to apply to, the essays and other personal statement issues, and all of her audition materials/work with her coach etc. My wife took care of details like audition dates, hotel reservations, deadlines for scholarship materials, etc. And dad tried to keep everyone sane.</p>