<p>Well - it has been a long time since I updated here. I have been BUSY.</p>
<p>Because, we finally found a home that truly is our dream home, except that three of the things I INSISTED were absolutely NON NEGOTIABLE - could not be on a dirt road with directions instead of an address, had to have natural gas, and must have lots of big windows - well, it failed on those. And I am having to repaint every wall and it has popcorn ceilings that MUST GO and all the flooring is wrong.</p>
<p>And yet, somehow, it is the perfect house for us, and we love it.</p>
<p>It was a good bit more than our maximum budget. But it had been on the market a long time and they were motivated so we made an offer and it was a lot lower than they wanted but they did soul searching and took it. We couldn’t believe it. It’s on 8 acres, right outside of town but still within a 12 minute drive to work for me (I have to go through 3 lights instead of one but oh well) The house is exactly the right size, not too small, not too big. It is on city water but has a well, it has a greenhouse (we don’t know just what to do with it yet…maybe they will legalize pot in Texas and we can retire HAHA) The bones of the house are open and it has a huge porch all along the front of it opening into the yard which has a decorative metal fence to feel secure but not block the view…it has a little fish pond in the back and a big fishing pond out on the acreage.</p>
<p>It was built in the 80s and is very solid, but outdated walls, which I can fix, it just takes time.</p>
<p>So we bought it, and moved in the first week of November, JUST as my job went full time…in RETAIL…at HOBBY LOBBY…AT CHRISTMAS TIME and I never ever ever ever ever ever want to do that again. fifteen years at our old place, fifteen years worth of STUFF to figure out whether to ditch it or move it…we still have boxes in every closet and the detached double car garage is just boxes to go through still.</p>
<p>But we love it.</p>
<p>And our old house, was on the market longer than we would have liked, but we listed it at about 15,000 more than we frankly thought it would go for. As soon as we dropped it below 100,000, we got an offer and it was a good offer, at our asking price but wanting a few thousand in seller’s assistance, so we took it and it went smoothly.</p>
<p>We cleaned out all our money and then took all the money from selling our old house and paid off the new one. (the old one was paid off already)</p>
<p>So now here we are, in what my parents call our “destination” home. Now we just have to keep ourselves fit and active so we can take care of it as we age, because I told my kids I was never leaving or moving EVER AGAIN and they’ll have to take me out of this place in a box!</p>
<p>Moral of the story: happy endings, from sudden and unexpected turns of events: they happen.</p>