<p>They sort of discussed availability of loans- the way he phrased it, it sounded like he was expecting to receive loans, but were upset they didn’t get any loans. at the same time, they call it “handouts” and scorn illegals and “poor people” who need help. </p>
<p>It’s just a combination of attitude, and contradictory things they say. They make financial aid sound dirty, but then they make it sound like they’re upset since they didn’t get any loans they are expecting. </p>
<p>Also, in general, thanks to the posts that pointed out another thing I didn’t know. It’s possible that the son might have checked no for loans, which explains the whole “0 help” comment.</p>
<p>I feel calmer about this. I was more upset earlier just the way they treated this topic. I have friends whose parents are also paying in cash, but don’t act like this. They’re also more truthful - example: friend said she got offered small unsubsidized loan, but parents decided to pay cash for all of her tuition and dorm fee, minus expenses (so she’s taking the unsub loan). And they don’t act all high and mighty like this family friend.</p>