<p>I was talking to a hot girl at orientation for a bit and I wanted to talk to her again but I felt awkward by asking for her number.</p>
<p>like is it cool to ask after like a convo</p>
<p>Depends on how much of a conversation it was. If she’s just talking to you and there’s no indication she’d want to talk to you outside of orientation then I wouldn’t ask.</p>
<p>If you ask a girl for her number because she is HOT then you already lost. </p>
<p>You ask a girl for her contact info because you have a reason to get a hold of her. Either you have the same class and want to study together. You play the same sport and want to meet up. Or you want to take her out on a date. </p>
<p>Do not ask a girl for her number because she is HOT. That makes her feel like an object and you are putting her on a pedestal. </p>
<p>Have a reason to ask for her number. If you get a long with a girl you will know when she likes you and it will be easy to escalate the situation into something more. Believe me, if you already think this girl is the girl of your dreams she will be a huge disappointment. From my experience the hottest girls are the ones with the most mental problems and daddy issues. If you want to hook up then join a frat or go out to bars. There are a lot of girls that like to hook up. But realize that you won’t get anything meaningful out of hooking up with a girl because she is hot. It won’t last, but hey it’s fun and if your young go for it.</p>
<p>You can ask for her number right off if you’ve already had a conversation and it went well.</p>
<p>Generally just ask after a good conversation…nothing to it really :D</p>
<p>magnum. one of your points is wrong. you said that asking a girl for her number because she’s hot makes her feel like an object? ***? who said OP was gonna go to a girl and tell her that in the first place…lol</p>
<p>I think sleep4me’s advice is good. If you hit it off and you want to talk again then go ahead and ask right after that conversation. It’s the first few weeks of school, everybody is giving their numbers to everybody.</p>
<p>^Exactly. If the convo went well then ask. If you really want to get a girls number without any trouble its good to either have the same class as them or be in the same club. That way you’ll see eachother often, but you can get her number so that you can hang out outside of those areas. Like at the mall or something.</p>
<p>i’ve found it’s a lot easier to just add them on fb and then ask from there. adding someone on fb isn’t that weird because you only need their name. and then after a short conversation on there you can be like “oh hey i’m getting off the computer now but maybe we can meet up later, what’s your number?”</p>
<p>or you can just ask them after a normal conversation. heh</p>
<p>^haha i’ve done that before.</p>
<p>i think the facebook thing is more awkward. i only add people i’m good friends with on facebook.</p>
<p>After you whip it out.</p>
<p>Better yet, just give her your number and see if she offers hers… </p>
<p>Write your number down in a break in the conversation, hand it to her and at the same time say, “Here’s my number if you want to hang out sometime”</p>
<p>Don’t ask if she wants your number and then write it down, that’s awkward and weird. Be prepared for those chance encounters, but don’t hand your number out too often where every chick has been offered your number. </p>
<p>On some large campuses you may not run into the same person again or if you do she could’ve met someone by then, so move when opportunity strikes.</p>
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i think you’re in the minority there; a lot of people i’m friends with on facebook i’ve only met once and it’s the only way we have of keeping in touch. i only have my good friends’ phone numbers.</p>
<p>^^^^I used to do that, but then a few people added me that I wasn’t good friends with, but they were cool when we hung out so I wanted to get to know them better. Now I just add people people like that. We’ve met and I want to get to know them better. If were good friends I generally have the person’s number.</p>
<p>^^Good advice. I’ve met a lot of cool girls, but didn’t get their number or give them mine. My campus is pretty big so I have yet to see any of them again. Also, if you do it this way its up to the girl to call you. If she doesn’t call you then she’s not interested in you and you can just move on without worrying about it.</p>
<p>If the conversation was really RELLY good then i’ll probablly ask for her Email so that " I add her on Facebook " , and then i’ll worry later about her number .</p>