@musicprnt, My wife and I got married in a similar situation. After we had got married and before she got a stable government job, we lived in the same city where her original family lived. Almost every day when I went to work, she took public transportation to her original home. So the life style change for her after married was very minimal, just that she went to our rented apartment, prepared dinners before I was home and slept there. After she started to work (in the same city), her job was very stable and not stressful (getting the job was a stressful process: likely only a few hundreds among 20k applicants would get the job by taking a test. She was a good tester - She ranked 5th among 20k test takers so she could take a job in the “desirable” largest city where I worked.)
We had very relaxed and happy 4 years right after our marriage. (The real tough work ahead for both of us had not started yet!)