I have no idea how anyone finances their wedding and if I’m not contributing to it, don’t feel it’s my place to inquire. The one who is getting married is having a reception at the country club her parents are members of. The other niece (sister) is not yet engaged, but is earning money as a resident and I believe her BF will be earning money as a resident as well. She has no debt, so she has money to contribute towards whatever she wants to. I have no idea whether she will end up marrying this BF, but they are pretty serious. I suspect if he gets placed near where she is and they work out details, they may well decide to marry, but they’ve been together for less than a year, so it’s difficult to KNOW for sure yet. They are VERY close for such a short relationship.