My twin sister and I are attending the same university, taking basically the same classes. She had a very rough first semester- we moved really far away from home and the adjustment was extremely hard for her. On top of that, she didn’t focus on school at all and partied way too much. The sad thing is, she’s smarter than me. Way smarter than me. She just doesn’t apply herself. She ended up with a 2.3 GPA and I haven’t been able to get her out of bed this break at all. She’s extremely depressed about it which is understandable even though it’s on her. I KNOW that she’s capable of getting straight A’s. She was valedictorian elementary school through high school and her SAT and high school GPA were ridiculous. If she applies herself, which I know she will now, and does get straight As (hypothetically speaking), how much can she bounce back from the 2.3?
Mathematically speaking, if she takes the same number of courses every semester and aces all of them, her GPA throughout four years will be (2.3 + 4*7)/8 = 3.79, which is quite good.
If she averages 3.5 over the next seven semesters (assuming same # of courses, then her GPA will be (2.3 + 3.5*7)/8 = 3.35.
In either case, she will have to really work at it and adjust quickly.
It’s possible with very few credits to change your GPA significantly. For example, my freshman year I had a 3.86. But sophomore year I got two Cs. My GPA did a nosedive and was around a 3.3. I’m now at a 3.2. Honestly I would suggest just try to get above a 3.0 encase she wants to go to grad school.
You can’t make her want to do this, even though she is your twin. It certainly is possible to improve it considerably – one bad semester can be offset by seven good ones in four years. But she is the one who has to be motivated. Would a gap semester be possible if she needs it?
It’s not really about bouncing back from the GPA. Like MITer said, she can have a decent GPA after the 2.3. You sound more concerned with the underlying problem: motivation to get the better grades.
I ran a business (that turned into several) during my first year at UC Berkeley, partied and socialized regularly, and still maintained a crazy high GPA. Perhaps your sister needs to know that there are ways to improve without drastically changing her lifestyle (which is something a lot of people balk at, which makes habit change so difficult.)
Knowing that she can get awesome grades without sacrificing the social aspect might help motivate her to perform better.
Confidence is one of the main ways to increase motivation. If she can increase her confidence in her own abilities, her natural talent for success (as it sounds like she has) can overtake the depression.
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