@PurpleTitan @merlion
Just because a person isn’t good at a sport doesn’t mean he/she isn’t passionate about it or doesn’t love it.
I know plenty of average people who play because they love the game and have been doing it their entire lives. OK so they haven’t committed at 16 and might want to play D3 or not play at all. Maybe they don’t want to do it in college anymore because they want to have more of a social life or they want to have a clearer focus on academics or volunteer service or working…that shouldn’t stop them from playing now. Everyone does something different. So Judy might be a top debater and Janie might be a decent (but not all star) soccer player. That does not and should not lessen Janie’s accomplishments and passions. If she loves soccer and enjoys it, more power to her.
Some people obviously come to the revelation like you know what, this isn’t worth it. I’m not going to the World Cup/Super Bowl/Stanley Cup/World Series. That’s fine. People are free to do their own thing, but skill isn’t proportionate with passion. There are people who are quite aware they aren’t going to be D1 collegiate all state superstars but they play because they want to. Playing in college isn’t the goal for everyone, but if they could go to D3 where academics can be a priority, that’s okay too.
Sports shouldn’t be classified as “mediocre.” It’s debatable whether or not it’s fair for a great basketball player with a 2.0 to get in over a 3.9 non athlete but sports should be held on an equal level with every other EC out there. Also, when did sports become ubiquitous? I know it seems like there are a lot of kids that are athletes, but I’m sure there are just as many kids involved with Model UN, debating, the yearbook, school newspaper, mock trial, robotics etc.
Sure, sports matter to colleges when you’re being recruited. If you’re not being recruited, it’s held on an equal pedestal. OK Janie did varsity 10, 11, and 12 and got letters all three years. Judy won the All State Debaters award in 11th and 12th. Cool. In both circumstances, neither student is different. They have equal passion and dedication to their extracurricular and have learned tremendous life lessons and have gained friends through the experience.
One should not be held over the other.
To respond to @PrepGirl47, since I believe the topic wandered a little from the original question, you have fine EC’s now. Don’t pick up a sport if you’ve never even played before, expecting to have it be a shoo-in for college! If you want to play a sport to try it and to get out of your comfort zone and meet new people, that’s great too. Whatever you choose, it will be fine either way.