I imagine it will vary on what state you live in on what makes sense in considering state and federal taxes.
We have lived in our current state (AL) since 1983 (we live in N AL). DDs live in FL and TX, with all the grandkids in TX. DH is not interested in living in FL or TX, but as long as he is heavily involved in specific activities where we currently live, we are staying put.
So now our house is getting ‘refreshed’ in 3 rooms (some under insurance, and some by us) – May 9th, a storm (or a prior storm) we were unaware of severe hail damage on our roof. A hole developed next to a drain line vent of our master bath, and rain water ran down that 2nd floor wall down to the wall of our formal dining room – a room we just don’t go in and out of; I noticed some pink mold along the line between the ceiling and the wall of that room when I was in the connecting formal living room on May 18th, and investigated further as well as filed insurance claim with USAA – yes water and mold. Cleared stuff away, ran a box fan on area – the damage was done (although sitting for these weeks since while getting insurance going properly and lining up the necessary contractors of course causes the mold to spread). DH was away for about a week, during claim filing but had returned a day before the first insurance inspection on 5-22 (which was an inadequate interior inspection, by USAA hired inspector) - the inspector did declare the roof had severe hail damage and needed to be replaced. Handy DH then caulked around that drain line vent and the other two on the roof to make sure no more water comes in the house before the roof gets replaced. As we got contractor estimates, USAA realized the size of the claim needs a senior adjustor, and also another inspection by a senior property field adjustor - this guy came 6-14. I was helping DD/grandkids on 2 week arranged trip that couldn’t be canceled, but was pushing things on phone and online, while DH was at the house handling things there. Our estimate for our roof was done 5-31, but our special gutters (Gutter Guard, purchased in 2020) needed to have ‘remove and replace’ service by Gutter Guard, and after lots of follow up the guy finally did a quote/estimate 6-24! Yes, 3 weeks later. With continuous flooring from formal dining room to living room, both rooms needed to be packed up and cleared – the packing was done 6-24 (gal worked all day, with dining hutch/crystal/china, and bookshelves/books in living room) and the movers are coming today to clear those two rooms and the Master Bath (I moved much of master bath items in bins for us to use our stuff in another upstairs bathroom while master bathroom is torn up). Our contractor did correct readings of moisture in master bath area, while 2nd insurance inspector did moisture reading at only a wall high spot (and not in the wall area below the built-in vanity where the wall is exposed with a sit-down space). That lower wall area now is covered with black mold and the cabinet has some of the wood bulging – I took pictures and sent to our senior adjustor. The plan was to ‘look up’ from the tear out dining room wall to inspect for mold - but obviously that plan has now changed. Our policy has a limitation of $10,000 covering damage from mold. Even though things would be replaced under the general policy due to water, I suspect we will have to pay out of pocket for some stuff. Yuck. At least our deductible is $2,000 (would have been $1,000 w/o the roof), and we paid for a special endorsement for updated IBHS Fortified Roof standard (that policy addition was only $90/year, and we added that as soon as that became eligible in our state with USAA in 2022). The new roof won’t protect against hail damage but will protect against higher winds. If our home was going to ‘stay in the family’ we would have investigated a metal roof, but we plan to be here potentially another 8-10 years (nicer smaller commercial buildings here have metal roofs). I told DD1 in TX “in 10 years, dad and I will be 78, you will be 40, and your oldest DD will be 16” - how is that for putting things in perspective?
We had refreshed the formal living and dining rooms in 2017, so now getting refreshed again.
Seeing all the work our younger neighbors did to clear out their home (built in 2007) to relocate has us now doing more now to get rid of stuff (we built this home in 1992, and we have a lot of storage areas too). Have to just work at it every day - have stuff in the garage to get rid of to have room for ‘nicer stuff’.
Once DDs do own their own homes, we can get rid of more stuff - there are some things they may want – and if they don’t, we can get rid of here. Both DDs want the crystal, but don’t know if either will have a formal dining room or want the china – we would keep the formal dining room furniture ‘intact’ until staging/sale of the home.
Roof was replaced due to hail damage in 2009; we always used 30 year roofing material. It is definitely worth making sure you have the right insurance coverage and making sure if roof has storm damage to have insurance replacement.
We felt some ‘anchor’ with our general contractor who we have used before. The estimator is also the same, and he is a relatively young guy. Very fair and good. That has kept us ‘grounded’. We also found what we believe is a good company for doing the tear out/mold work (we will see how well they are during the actual work tomorrow). We had a delay with the initial packing company (didn’t come up with their quote in a reasonable time) - and new company was excellent on getting quote, communicating, having a very good packer (she has worked for them for 3 years).