<p>My parents are paying more than they can really afford, their parents paid more than they could afford, and when I have kids I’ll do the same if necessary. And if I’m in a position to help with my parents’ retirement I will.</p>
<p>Lots of people here (a place which I think unreasonably biased towards parents) will disagree, but I think it’s silly to place the large financial burden on the party it will be hard for. While college is taxing for parents to pay for, it would be even more taxing to worry about as a student.</p>
<p>I’m overworked and stressed enough as it is without having to try to work more than goes with my studies. And, I really resent the comment about paying for college <-> having skin in the game. Most students I know are lucky enough to not have to pay for their own school, and none of them think their education is any one’s responsibility but their own.</p>
<p>I still work 10-20 hrs/week during the school year and >=40 over the summer, but because of my parent’s contribution, I’m in the position that I only take jobs that come with learning experiences (not just any hours that will pay). I spend all of the time that I’m at work working, but can gain experience and knowledge. If I had to pay myself, I would be attending a different school and would also not be able to make use of opportunities/take as many classes/pursue as many projects as I’ve been able to do.</p>
<p>Just my point of view. I don’t know - maybe some of you in the position to be able to contribute will consider it.</p>