<p>I don’t think you can create chemistry. It just happens. Some of my friends and I are so emotionally close that it doesn’t seem that even romance could bring us any closer. At times, that confused me, but I’ve come to realize that some people are just perfect friends for you. Someday, you’ll figure out who you’re supposed to be romantically involved with.</p>
<p>In a depressing point of view, in high school I used to tell my friends about “laissez-faire love”:
- You can’t help who you fall in love with.
- You can’t help who falls in love with you.
- You can’t make anyone love you.
- You can’t make yourself love anyone.</p>
<p>It just happens. Without other things forcing it.</p>