<p>I agree with JHS that if the student is missing out she will notice. I started college 30 years ago having a nearby boyfriend, which took too much time away from campus. Told him over Christmas it was going to change and I would have less time for him. Got the ultimatum - spend more time with me or it’s over - so I said Ok, it’s over. It felt good to be free of him, but that was a decision I had to make by myself.</p>