How to make the first move to date a girl

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<p>why don’t you sit next to her in class and introduce yourself?</p>

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<p>This is sentence that should help.</p>

<p>Whenever you like a girl go up to her and try to talk about something, it can be anything as long as its kinda interesting.</p>

<p>If she rejects you then the hell with her, her loss.</p>

<p>Move on to the next</p>

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<p>This sort of thing seems rather intuitive to me, so regrettably, you may not be able to randomly talk to her and get her to agree to a date. You should, however, try, as there is little to lose in pursuing her. </p>

<p>From the female perspective: say something interesting and quirky to either her or to a person you both have in common (any common friends or acquaintances?) and then get her to converse with you. You may just want to ask a question that requires a multi-sentence response. If she seems interested and doesn’t end the conversation, talk to her again the next time you see her and ask her out then. Preferably in a low-stress environment in which you two are alone.</p>

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<p>I would personally say something like, “Hey, did you know I have over 200 posts on College Confidential forums?”</p>

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<p>I think the biggest obstacle is letting rejection slide off your back. All guys will have to cope with rejection, and that transition from being a timid daydreamer to a dating go-getter may be a bit rough, but you need to get through it. Otherwise, you’ll be afraid all your life.</p>

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<p>Go to the mall and talk to at least 20 girls with the intent of getting rejected. You’ll get over rejection quickly…</p>

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<p>^ LOL</p>

<p>Experience is good, even if you fail the first time.</p>

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<p>oh man…the sad part is you’re serious</p>

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Ah hellz yeah.</p>

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<p>It isn’t even half as bad to get rejected than to not know</p>

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<p>just go up to her and be all like hai baybii did joo juss fart cuz u suer blue me away</p>

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<p>“Hey yo, so I’ve seen you in every single class…are you also a ____ major?”
…which classes are you taking next semester?
a. cool, we’re taking the same classes. maybe we could study together?
b. oh bummer! so where are you headed now? I was think of eating at ____</p>