<p>Alright, so I’m in college and I’ve never dated because I’m a chicken, i fear rejection and subsequent awkwardness… so there’s this girl… we have the same classes every DAY of the week (huge coincidence)… She might not be interested in me at all and we’ve never even talked… so we’re not even friends (so I don’t think I need to be scared of any future awkwardness)… how should I make the first move?</p>
<p>try talking to her? seems like a good place to start (not joking)</p>
<p>I have only sat with her once but I didn’t talk to her… right now it’s really hard to find the chance to sit with her because the sittings are pretty much fixed… and the semester is almost over (like a week left)… so i guess i don’t talk to her now i never will… sometimes I do ‘feel’ that we look at each other, or just our sights crossed… but well… maybe i was just thinking too much…</p>
<p>If you don’t find a way to talk to her, I doubt anything will happen.</p>
<p>Sack up and do it after class when ya’ll are walking out.</p>
<p>you have to get to know her a little first and then make your move.</p>
<p>Grab his ass.</p>
<p>would it be bad to just email her?</p>
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<p>you serious, brah?</p>
<p>some people think that PUA is stupid, and some of it is, but you really need to read some. You don’t even have the slightest clue what you’re doing.</p>
<p>Women respond to assertiveness/confidence/dominance. You won’t tell her anything except for how much of a ■■■■■ you are if you email her.</p>
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That’s the stupidest thing I ever heard.</p>
<p>You never date a girl before you hook up.</p>
<p>DO NOT EMAIL HER!!! Hell, just talk to her for starters! See if she wants to grab lunch with you at the cafeteria or something… and then take it from there… simple.</p>
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<p>Exactly. Go up to her and talk to her. Class will be over soon. The worst that can happen is she says “no”. But please don’t IM her, e-mail her, or ask her about homework, you will only bore her.</p>
<p>How about starting with “Hi” and introducing yourself first?</p>
<p>Hey listen man. 20 years from now you will regret the things you didn’t do much more than the ones that you did. Whats the worse that could happen? Even if you come off as a total loser and idiot she’ll say no. Whats the best? You will have a fun date maybe more. Seriously, don’t overthink this, don’t scour the internet for a magic pill, don’t study
players or any other idiotic ‘pua’ stuff. Guys have been asking out girls and been successful with women before any one came out with clever witty pick up stuff. Just say hi, make conversation, ask her out. Be confident if yourself. You can’t fake it. People can smell right through you if you are weak inside.</p>
<p>To sum up, just man up and ask her out bro…Don’t go over lines in your head, just be natural.</p>
<p>I second the not thinking part. Thinking is very, very bad as far as relationships with girls are concerned. Just do.</p>
<p>“You never date a girl before you hook up.”</p>
<p>Truth son.</p>
<p>Go up to her, say to her “Hi, I notice we take the same classes together and I’ve seen you around a lot” (she has probably noticed this, too). Then introduce yourself. Something like that.</p>
<p>I actually think that he should make a conversation seem natural. Don’t start out with an introduction and never say that you’ve noticed her. Just comment on something… chit chat for a bit and then introduce yourself.</p>
<p>Confidence is everything… but then if she does say yes i would try as hard as possible to not make that lunch/coffee awkward with long silences…</p>