<p>just a note… if it is a serious relationship, you don’t have to only see each other half a year. my sister routinely has boyfriends visit while she’s at home. its fun.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>Thanks Sid for understanding my point.</p>
<p>I have one thing to add. When you find that connection, you need to honor it. Recognize it and honor it. It’s so very unusual. In my own case, we let it go, due to circumstances outside of our control … having to do with timing and other life events. I’m not sure either of us recognized what we had and how unusual it was. I know I didn’t. I do now. And if I’d known then what I know now …</p>