<p>I am very scared, my parents might split up. My dad works in another city for a long time, and my mom is having suspicion something is going on. And she said she found some stuff… I am really scared, what can i do to make situation better?</p>
<p>I am sorry that you are worrying about this. I am sorry that your mom told you she found something, thereby making you part of this. You cannot do anything to make a bad situation better. You can talk frankly to your parents, probably seperately would be my guess. sounds like you have been talking to your mom. I am divorced, but I made it a point to not tell my kids about their father’s activities and problems. I don’t know how old you are, but if you are a teen or older, I might suggest talking to your dad somewhere where you have his full attention, and tell him you are confused, scared and upset. Obviously your parents need to talk, but that is not your doing. you can’t control other people, but you can find out information to make yourself feel better. They are your parents and it is their job to help you feel secure or safe. That doesn’t mean they won’t split up or the like. talk to your dad.</p>
<p>Newby,
Let me echo Amith. You can’t fix this one. I would suggest that you seek out some counseling. When you feel in the middle this way, talking to someone who is not involved with your family can help a lot. Your parents may be too caught up in their own issues and/or pain to be able to give you the support you need right now.</p>
<p>Echo here, dear. It isn’t your job to make it better. It’s their job to make it okay for you. If they can’t do it right now, it’s their job to help you find someone who can help you be okay right now. Ask for whatever help you need. If they don’t hear you the first time, ask louder. Ask wherever you need to until you get it. I’m sorry we can’t do it for you. You will be okay, but you need someone to talk to who’s right there for you.</p>