okay can someone help me. I cant tell if this person like me or not. we are in a college class ( im. a non traditional student tho so im kinda older than other student but not massively I also dont think they can tell)
and I was put in a group w someone in a class.i noticed him looking at me before for prolonged period bu ti want sure. bc I know im likely older than him I just avoided anything or came across as cold
when we got put in a group I was super nervous. he also asked if he could be in someone else’s group when our prof was deciding so I felt kinda rejected. but then we walked out together talking and he seemed friendly enough.
as time went we another person in our group so dynamics changed since before that we never met to talk about our project & we just decided stuff in text. the new person wanted to do a zoom call. then he kinda was taking control & making my crush do more work, it created some tensions where I pressed everyone to do work and felt little ghosted
I. asked him at one point when our other group member was unresponsive if he wanted to work on the group project together and no worries if not, and he saidyeah. hes absent a lot from class, so. ik it didnt have to do with me but thatt same day he wasnt in class, but he still agreed to meet and offered to skip his last class so we could meet without me waiting around all day. in the end I said nvm cuz I felt like iw as forcing him bc he kept saying “if you want to, idc when we do it”
then a couple days later I asked if he wanted to talk about the project and he said the next day. we never did and the project was due soon sos I started getting angry and threatening to ttetl the prof if they didnt do work or respond. thats was a whole thing. he finally did his part of the project and asked for feedback that I gave him saying he missed something we could have known how tto do if he was more responsive. and he spent a long time fixing it. ike the edits showed he sspent hours his part ofhe project came out way better than thought and he apologized for bad comuncation when he was done.
on the day of our project he made zero eye contact with me. I sat next to the other group memebrbc he was sitting where I usually sit, and my crush sat behind us, idk if he feel excluded. anwyayduring the presentation I noticed him watching me,. but he never made eye contact with me this whole time, and seems like he was avoiding me.
I was hoping he’d line up to leave class at the same time with me but he walked out early, walked by us and said good job ( but still not making eye contact with me) and walked out. I felt kinda bad. not that we even talked much in classs. near each other, etc. we only walked out of class together a couple times but it seemed like he’d often try to walk out at the same time as me, I would get nervous and go in another direction.
am I imaging this or is there any chance he could have liked me? I felt really bad when he wouldnt even look at me today. I was wearing a huge sweatttshir that was clearly a mens one but it’s mine. idk if he saw thought and thought something or if he genuinely Wass not interested in me att all. Weve had times in class where we smiled at each other or I noticedhim looking at me . When we did have a zoom call with our group, I had wifi problems and he wakled away when I wasnt on screen. Then he also made a jokewith me/laughed.
pls help!! we only have 2 classes lefT (he might not show up) plus the final. am I imaging this? imhonestly like longing for him, not im a relationship way since im older, but. more attractive wise or maybe friend wise. I dont crush on ppl often o I guess thats why Im feeling liek this.
