I feel like Elliot in Scrubs(low self-esteem)

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<p>If you guys have ever watched Scrubs, esp. Season 3 ep 1-2, you’ll know what I’m talking about(the episodes when she cut her hair, got bf), yeah whatever. But basically she’s smart enough but lets others walk over her. I’m not “afraid” of talking, but I just sometimes don’t talk loud enough, and look timid. I don’t look confident. I’m not good at social situations either. What can I do? I would appreciate if you could like give me some steps(in like logical order), or a plan to follow. I really want to be active, and social, but I just am not able to. Thanks.</p>

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<p>conformity…is key LOL</p>

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<p>Exactly how sad is it that out of 25 people viewing my thread 1 person responds to it…my statement above proved right, again.</p>

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<p>you need help on your social esteem. you will see miraculous changes in your social behavior once you raise your self esteem. feel free to pm me if u need help</p>

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<p>For God’s sake, you watch Scrubs, you must be an amazing person. That is reason enough to have high self esteem.</p>

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<p>are you shy by nature or have what they call “selective mutism”? It’s ok…you’re not alone. I’m like that too. sort of.</p>

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<p>see a counselor. seriously. no one on an online forum is going to correct your self-esteem issues.</p>

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<p>Sure, or inferiority complex.</p>