<p>I’m sorry you are sad there, but it sounds like your parents have laid down the rules. If they are footing the bill for you, then I think you need to accept it. It doesn’t sound like your mom is saying that you cannot transfer. Just that you have to stick out the year. So, instead of focusing on how much you hate UIUC and you can’t imagine how you’ll make it through, put your efforts into your studies so that you have a great GPA for your transfer application. In the meantime, stay away from the frats if those types annoy you. Continue to try to find some clubs. I would imagine that in a school the size of UIUC, there’s some that are fitness related. Maybe you will find like minded people there. Have you looked into what types of alcohol free activities the university offers on weekends? </p>
<p>IMO, the first semester of college is a crazy adjustment for everyone. Lots of kids go nuts with their new found freedom…and when they get their first report card most will realize they have to dial it back. I know the frats SEEM to dominate things, that is just the type of people that they are. But realize that only 21% of the male population is in a fraternity there (according to the most recent common data set). That really is not all that much compared to some other schools I am familiar with. </p>
<p>I’m glad you visited the counseling center. If your situation continues to make you feel empty or sad, or you just need help with how to make it through the year, don’t hesitate to go back. If you are still on your parents insurance, and you wanted to see someone outside of school, investigate that if you want. </p>
<p>As far as the snoring roommate, you could have a lot worse things. Get yourself some earplugs. </p>