I keep getting mad at my girlfriend over every small thing

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<p>I love my girlfriend a lot. But there are many times where I just get mad at her for every small thing. Like for example, we like to talk to each other on the phone everyday. If I go several days without talking to her, I get mad because she keeps blowing me off for other things.</p>

<p>I guess the reason why I get mad at her a lot is because she sometimes don’t do what I want her to do. For example, she loves to belly dance. Last Saturday, when I came over to her house, I wanted to see her belly dance but she said no. Maybe she didn’t feel like it. But last Sunday, when her cousins came over, she did a belly dance performance to them and her family! How come she does it for her cousins but not for me? What should I do? Sometimes, all I could think is getting mad at her.</p>

<p>Please don’t tell me that we should break up. I love her so much!</p>

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<p>Grow up, that’s what you should do.</p>

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<p>She won’t belly dance for you whenever you want her to? Breaking up is the only option, I’m sorry.</p>

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<p>I mean sometimes she belly dance for me when I come over. It’s just this single incident that she didn’t do it when I ask her to.</p>

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<p>I echo the second post.</p>

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<p>girls don’t have to do what you tell them to do and if that’s what you expect out of a girl you need to find a more submissive girl.</p>

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<p>Maybe she’s shy about dancing in front of you rather than her family members.</p>

<p>Is this your first girlfriend? I think you are just feeling a bit scared that she might not interested in you just because she refuses to dance for you or goes a few days without calling. If you are feeling uncomfortable and don’t trust her, maybe you need to have a talk with her, take a break from each other, or break up with her.</p>

<p>Just make sure that you getting mad over small things doesn’t escalate – like abuse, both verbally and physically =&lt;/p>

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<p>Break up with her. She deserves better.</p>

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<p>I don’t think she’s shy dancing in front of me. She told me her Ipod she uses for belly dancing was in her living room and we were upstairs in her room. Maybe she was too lazy to get her Ipod.</p>

<p>Yes, she is my first girlfriend. We’ve known each other since we were young. However, I stopped seeing her when I was in 5th or 6th grade and I saw other girls during the time we were separate. We got back together immediately after my high school senior prom and have been dating again ever since.</p>

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<p>^ Have a talk with her. It would suck to break up, especially since you’ve known each other for years.</p>

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<p>Ok, I will talk to her.</p>

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You give great advice!</p>

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<p>^+1 (10 chars)</p>

<p>Do you do everything she tells you to do?..</p>

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<p>She usually doesn’t ask me to do something for her.</p>

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<p>Change your attitude. You’re in America now. She is not your property. It is not her duty to serve you nor is it her responsibility to boost your confidence. If you can’t understand the concept of what is a healthy relationship then you are not mature enough to have one.</p>

<p>Give her some space and let her grow into the person SHE wants to be.</p>

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<p>You sound like an abuser in the making.</p>

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<p>“However, I stopped seeing her when I was in 5th or 6th grade”</p>

<p>lol middle school relationships</p>

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<p>OP - love is a trick nature plays upon us so that we reproduce. Ask yourself whether this synergy is beneficial. If it is not, send it to the curb, post haste.</p>

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Agree’d with this.</p>

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<p>stop being such a whiner and grow up</p>