<p>So, I have this HUGE thing for my best friend’s twin brother. I love my best friend and our friendship has always been my first priority. She practically made me the person I am today. But, lately, her brother has metamorped into this hottie and I hung out with him recently and I realized that he’s perfect for me- I’m obsessive, easily excitable and irresponsible and he’s calm all the time, really responsible and just really tall. He’s absolutely perfect for me!
I can’t flirt with him or even hold a proper conversation with him coz his sister is damn weird about any of her friends hanging out/ remotely liking him. I know she would hate it if anything happened between her brother and me. So, my questions are:
- How do I get her brother to stop treating me like his sister’s friend?
- How do I get him to like me? (I’m totally innocent. He’s my first crush and I just graduated high school. Yeah, hormones kicked in 6 months after my 18th birthday.)<br>
- Should I let her know I’m serious about her brother?
- How do you guys think she’ll react to me liking her brother?</p>
<p>dont be juvenile about this. you dont need permisson from your friend. just start talking to him more and more and then ask him out. Your friend shoudnt have a problem. its brothers who are sensitive about sisters, not the other way around. good luck.</p>
<p>Unless you are willing to lose your best friend, better start thinking of her twin as a brother also. When the flirtation/relationship ends it will be awkward and she will never treat you the same. Hang in there until college starts. Take a cold shower.</p>
<p>^ Pretty sure only guys have to take the cold shower. </p>
<p>As for the question at hand, you should pursue the brother. What if you’re destined to marry him? Your friend will feel a little weird about it initially, but she’ll adjust over time if necessary.</p>
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<li>are you sure this is really love or just infatuation ? examine your feelings.
2 if you are going to college in a few months- is it really worth it to have this relationship- remeber long-distancerealtionships usually don’t work</li>
<li>i would talk to my friend about it first- acting in secret will only get you in trouble</li>
<li>how to get him to notice you ? flirt with him and try to find alone time w/ him to charm him.</li>
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<p>How do you know that he’s “perfect for you” if you admit that you haven’t even held a full conversation with him?
You should try to get to know him before deciding that this is worth pursuing, especially if you think you may be risking a friendship.</p>
<p>She’ll probably be glad that he’s dating YOU of all the girls. (well, might be dating lmao)
and just talk to him normally. but don’t tend to be obsessive or call/text him too much, have HIM come to you. hard to get my friend, it works, trust me (: (plus it lets you know if he likes you back)</p>
<p>Ok, you guys can stop being doubtful, I’m really sure that this relationship could turn into something great because I’ve NEVER been the kind for silly crushes or infatuations. I know it’s totally cliched but I think he’s “the real deal”.<br>
At times I think he likes me as something more than his sister’s friend coz once when I was really drunk he took real good care of me and made sure I didn’t throw myself at random guys in the room. And I don’t know, he teases me a lot? Is that a sign that he may have more than brotherly/friendly feelings for me? I always thought guys tease girls they like? Is that even true?
The other thing is: He’s really careful and he’ll never reveal how he feels through any kind of words. I have to constantly evaluate his actions. How do you think he would act if he liked me?</p>
<p>If she was truly your friend then she would be happy for the both of you if you had a good relationship.</p>
<p>What she’s probably insecure about is you deserting her for her brother. If you like her brother, be upfront with her instead of sneaking around.</p>
<p>I don’t doubt that you really like him, but you never really know someone until you are in a relationship with him. There is absolutely no way that you can think he’s the real deal without, at the very, very least, dating him.</p>
<p>A big trouble!
First ,you should make yourself clear that if you like him very really.Listen to your heart and your feelings.If you are sure of that ,let him know,regardless any way.
Second ,remember this :Any love doesn’t worth you to give up friendship, if this friendship is worth to cherish.
Third ,Maybe you will lose love and firendship at the same time .You must clear of that and determine whether tell them.
At any time ,cherish and care about yourself.</p>
<p>“but you never really know someone until you are in a relationship with him. There is absolutely no way that you can think he’s the real deal without, at the very, very least, dating him.”
That is an excellent point.</p>
<p>I suggest that you sext him</p>