<p>High school sucked for me. Parents were extremely strict and I could not have fun. I have/had friends but they rarely talk to me or hang out with me because they know I wont be able to go (because of my parents). I never had a girlfriend or had any real fun. I just studied and did my work. My voice is not deep at all and I take a lot of heat for it. My teeth sucked but now i have braces and its getting better. I am going to buy clothes so I look good as well (worked full time this summer). I am going to a good school (can’t say what school though sorry), but it has prestige and good ranking. I love the school I am going to, college is amazing, but I dont want the same thing in high school. I want to get girls, be confident, and not be so skinny. I am currently working out and have been for the last 7 weeks. Hopefully i change, but I think i dotn have a lot of testostorone. How I can be more manly? I only have 10 days until college, I want to have a deeper voice, honestly that would make me happy. I worked so hard this summer and im sick of everything. I want to be confident and happy, but im tired of girls being so cold and my friends not being there for me. I was always just the “val” at my school who they only came to for help.I graduated a year early in HS to start over in college. I want to make these years the best. Please I tried everything, but give me tips to look and be more manly. I look like a kid and im tired of it. This is NOT a ■■■■■, i made a new account so people would not know who I am/what college I go to. I know you’ll say im fine the way i am… But I am not. I just want to be confident. </p>
<p>Should I fake a deeper voice? I have been practicing but none of the voices I fake I like, most guys my age have deeper voices mines has always stayed the same. I want my own unique deep voice</p>
<p>Don’t fake a deeper voice. Anyone who is going to judge you for your voice is not worth it. Honestly, I think people are less petty in college (they tend to be, anyway - and this doesn’t apply to everyone, mind you). What’s great about college is that you’re usually able to find your niche, and a group of friends who respect you. The increased freedom and ability for interation also lends itself more to fostering relationships. If you’re changing, do it for yourself so you can be who you want to be, not who you think others want you to be.</p>
<p>Don’t worry about your voice man, odds are that it will get a little deeper over the next couple of years. As for working out, go to google and type in BMR calculator. Enter your height, weight, age, sex, and sedentary as your activity level and see what the number is. You need to eat between 300 and 500 calories MORE than that number a day, depending if you work out or not on that particular day. Set of a routine and take advantage of the gym at your school. Do heavy weights three times a week, and some light cardio twice a week to keep a healthy heart. You’ll probably gain up to half a pound of muscle a week, and increase your testosterone levels naturally. As for clothes, of course have some workout clothes, but for walking around, go to the mall and find a pac sun and urban outfitters and buy a few well fitting v neck t-shirts. They should hug the body, but not be skin tight. Try to stick to natural colors like green, brown, gray, black, tan, and maybe blue. Then go buy some slim fit dark Levi’s jeans and go wherever you like best to get some cargo shorts. White sneakers and white belt and you’re all set. Shower daily, brush your teeth to keep any leftovers from sticking in the braces, whiten, use deodorant, and pick up some cologne from pac sun. Now, look in the mirror, and be confident. But most importantly, take advantage of the opportunities presented to you, and don’t forget about your grades. By this I mean, when an opportunity to do something exciting or new comes up, or when you have the opportunity to be social, say YES. And, both girls and guys respect a guy who maintains his 4.0 GPA. Keep sight of your goals, and do your best to achieve them. That’s how you be more of a man.</p>
<p>I’m you, inverted, as a girl with an extremely deep voice. I always describe myself as someone with the face of a 13-year old and the voice of a 40 year old post-op. Let me tell you one thing: don’t fake your voice. It’s soul-crushing and you will feel horribly fake, like a mockery of yourself. You might possibly feel even more awkward around people because you’re so self-conscious about maintaining the voice. I’m speaking from experience. I’ve faked a typical girly voice all throughout high school and I’ve trapped myself now that I want to drop the act and not give a damn about what others think. Just don’t do it. Stay confident and don’t cave to others’ expectations and opinions. Let me know how things work out for you!</p>