Disagree. Parents are more involved in the college selection process than ever before (especially those with advanced degrees or professional degrees such as engineering & business). Information regarding colleges is, seemingly, everywhere. Information regarding colleges is available daily in print media, television/cable news programs, websites, travelling college and university admissions officers events for parents and students, etc.
Maybe college counselors have superior working knowledge for the nuts-and-bolts of the application process, but not regarding school selection.
Students at elite prep boarding schools are there because of how highly the student & the student’s family regard education. Both students and their families invest heavily in education.
College counselors’ main function is to assure that all students who want to pursue higher education at a college or university get accepted somewhere in line with their basic interests and obvious qualifications. Elite prep boarding school counselors are not charged with getting students admitted to the most prestigious colleges & universities, rather, they seek a basic fit.
As for parents being unaware of the college landscape regarding admissions, all understand the importance of grades, standardized test scores, and special talents and abilities; it is not rocket science.
More articles regarding higher education admissions, college guidebooks, standardized test prep services, as well as athletic,science,math,writing camps/programs exist today than in the past.
Parents who invest in prep boarding schools and elite private schools tend to be very well informed regarding colleges and universities in many aspects. Yes, leave the basic nuts & bolts and basic guidance to the college counselors, but targeting particular colleges & universities is often driven by the family (parents & student).
We live in an age of information; in fact, we live in an age of information overload–especially with respect to higher education. Difficult to find a parent with no knowledge of US News rankings and other higher education ratings & rankings services which also provide an overabundance of advice with respect to college admissions.
College counselors do serve a useful purpose for the student who wishes to discuss the college application process (nuts & bolts basics such as timelines & staying organized & on schedule) in order to stay on schedule, satisfy application requirements, and,maybe, to relieve stress.
P.S. I cannot recall the number of times that I have been asked by professional parents (doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc.) which pre-school is the best feeder school to the most prestigious private schools in the Atlanta area as well as for other large east coast cities. And, almost always, they are targeting a specific school for kindergarten, then high school,and, of course, colleges. Yes, they really want to know which pre-school is the top feeder to School XYZ’s kindergarten.( Anyone familiar with NYC private schools have encountered this as well as unsolicited advice to pre-register one’s child at birth for certain schools. LOL)
Regarding private day schools, educated/degreed parents in the Wash DC area, NYC, and Boston tend to be very well informed.
Not to mention parents financial awareness about the costs of higher education and various financing alternatives such as lottery funded scholarships.
P.S. Parents are so heavily involved in the college prep & application process that a term “helicopter parents” was created & popularized.
I know many parents of private school students who are heavily involved in the college app & selection process, but do not share there involvement with the student’s college counselor (for obvious reasons). Especially true of elite boarding school parents whom I know well.