I'm missing grade 9 and grade 10 marks. Should all hope be lost?

This, right here, tells me a lot about your chances. The ability to do exactly that might just be one of the things that makes a standout Harvard or Stanford applicant.

Without grades from 2/3 of your HS record, the admissions committee will put a little more weight on each of your other areas, so they need to be that much better.

How are your test scores?