I'm sad

I don’t like my parents. They do things: as their tone, the way I do things, or even my clothing
It makes me very sad to be with them.

Tomorrow, go speak with your guidance counselor or another adult who you trust about this situation. Let them know that you need help to develop coping strategies for living with your parents.

Wishing you all the best!

Agree, seek out adults who can help you. Perhaps a counselor at your school or if necessary call a help hotline for immediate assistance. Parent-child relationships are challenging for many people so you are not alone.

Good suggestions.

There is absolutely no guarantee that children & parents will like each other. This can come as a real shock to some people, or make them believe there is “something wrong” with their family.

Parents sometimes get a bit obsessed with wishing their child had everything together, and children of all ages are, of course, not perfect. I think it can be a reflection that parenting is hard and full of worries, and we would be rid of those worries once our child “had a real job”, etc.

That might not help much but please don’t take it personally!

So here’s the thing…

You didn’t say if you are a high school student or a college student but regardless you are on the verge of becoming an adult. Adults have their own lives and do their own things. Accept your parents for who they are, be grateful for what they do and have done for you, be kind and courteous to them, and always be a good son or daughter honoring them. You will be living your own life soon and won’t be spending tremendous amounts of time with them. No need to dwell on this. Make the best of it and find joy in the good and accept what you don’t like. You may feel differently about that during other seasons of your life. Maybe not. Keep moving forward and be positive. Your parents mean well.