@Kelowna where are you from? Vandy is very southern, so if you are not from there, there are definitely issues (esp for girls) that she may not realize. Other than having said that, I would go Yale - given her future interests Yale probably gives her the best opportunities for all of those areas. However, it is important to note that if she really doesn’t feel comfortable there, she shouldn’t go - she needs to be sure it’s the right place to spend the next four years, and it needs to be her decision - not folks on CC encouraging you to take the best school.