<p>Is there any advice to getting over this? I am just so insecure about girls and it makes me sick. If someone doesn’t text me right back or once something gets a bit complicated with girls, I get my confidence shattered and start obsessing and worrying. It is in my nature to take things badly, but I don’t know what I overanalyze the smallest thing and make it into a huge deal and just AGONIZE over it. Then I just get very insecure and stop talking to the girl and wallow in self pity. Any advice?</p>
<p>Therapy? Seriously, insecurity is crippling, you will not be able to manage a healthy relationship until you get that under control.</p>
<p>Haha that was me before but I’ve learned to deal with it. I learned because of over analyzing small things, it ruins relationships. I rather not let that happen. So what do I do? Not care about it. At first it’s tough to “not care” but after awhile of thinking like that it works. Or take your mind off it, play game, watch movie, chill with friends.</p>
<p>Take it from me please, don’t do this, you’ll lose a relationship and regret it badly as I do right now. (she doesn’t even say hi let alone smile at me now)</p>
<p>Sigh… this is what happens to me. I always say to myself that it is necessary to only look for people even if they’re girls, ones who are actually thoughtful of you. If someone doesn’t make a response within hours or days, then maybe you can just walk up to her and ask her if she was aware of the whereabouts of your sent text-messages.</p>
<p>If the person doesn’t respond back within hrs or days then that person probably isn’t in to u. Even if they are really busy they can shoot a quick text. Or the convo may have just gotten dull.</p>
<p>you are seeing them as objects</p>
<p>they are human beings</p>
<p>"you are seeing them as objects</p>
<p>they are human beings "</p>
<p>If you’re trying to tell him that if humans act like inanimate objects to “just made friends”, then it could be theoretically true. I hate that. But otherwise, you may have to elaborate on your definition of this comparison if I did not paraphrase it correctly.</p>
<p>no thats not what i meant</p>
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<p>LEARN GAME. BE A MAN.</p>
<p>Neil Strauss, he’s your man for advices.</p>
<p>I thought Chuck Norris was the guy for advice.</p>
<p>If you wanna talk to someone, give them a call. Text is very low priority esp. if the other person is busy. If they ignore your calls, then you know they are not into you. Texts aren’t the best way for communication. Besides, you honestly, have nothing to lose by making a phone call to just say Hi! Grow some balls and get some more confidence!</p>