<p>1)   I agree that the $100K loan total, which has been almost âgenericallyâ used in this thread, is quite unlikely.  I base this on numerous briefings received as a member of Dukeâs Annual Fund Executive Committee and the Alumni Associationâs Executive Committee.</p>
<p>2)   Much more important, I truly understand the worthy debate between those who justifiably feel an âeliteâ (and I loathe using that term) education is a wise investment and those who understandably question its enduring value (given the high cost, the family sacrifices involved, and the fact that not everyone aspires to be a USSC Associate Justice, etc.).</p>
<p>With respect for both viewpoints, I fundamentally side with am.  Like her, I come from a proud and solid middle class background, and I would never have attended Duke without a full scholarship (plus a salary) from the Navy.  However, I worked very hard to earn that scholarship and I repaid the American people through decades of honorable â perhaps even distinguished â service.</p>
<p>What I discovered in the process is that the COMPREHENSIVE advantages of a most-selective education last for a lifetime and reshape oneâs analytical abilities and oneâs intellectual breadth.  Critically, I believe the saddest words a 30+ year old can think or speak are âwhat if:â  What if I had attended law school?  What if I had taken job x in a wonderful non-profit, instead of job y on Wall Street?  What if I had had more children?  What if I had matriculated at a rather than at b?  Obviously, the list is endless.</p>
<p>The point here is that the excellent graduate of a flagship public university is, in my long-considered (I approach 70 soon) opinion, far more likely to become a substantial âwhat ifer,â than if he had attended âa Duke.â  This results as much from the wide-ranging perception of educational â in its broadest sense â quality, as it does from the actual differences in the education quality, between elite universities/LACs and most state schools.</p>
<p>What percent of entry level jobs in the very best firms are highly-disproportionately filled by graduates of elite universities/LACs?  Similarly, what proportion of the students at the very best graduate and professional schools are similarly selected?  The answer, in both cases, is a LOT;  and the reason, I suggest, is that these highly influential institutions are very willing to allow the first â and must-critical â screening to be preformed by undergraduate admissions departments.</p>
<p>Many will suggest that this is fundamentally unfair, and I would agree.  However, life frequently isnât fair.  My twin brother has a PhD from Ohio State;  he has had a fine life, however, his opportunities have been constrained because his terminal degree is not from an elite university.</p>
<p>Does this make a difference?   Clearly, that is an entirely INDIVIDUAL decision, but it could (and, realistically, secondary school seniors have almost no idea where lifeâs long path will lead).  Therefore, I urge youngsters to be acutely aware of the perils of âwhat if.â  Those haunting âwhat ifâ deficiencies certainly will be a good deal more important â and far longer lasting â than any loan.</p>