There is an athletic recruit sub-forum here on CC. Definitely suggest you pay a visit. They know the specifics of the recruiting process. Here is a link:
Its great that your child is getting attention at this young age. My son was an athlete at Lville who ultimately did not end up getting recruited for his sport. The Saturday classes along with the inability to travel to tournaments on the weekends killed his ranking. Lville has a beautiful 9 hole golf course right on campus. But very few golf recruits. This should tell you something.
IMHO I think you’d be better off going to a public school or somewhere else where its easier to get high grades to satisfy the AI requirements. As soon as COVID is over, the ivies will go back to requiring standardized testing for applicants.