Is it possible to have fun in a fraternity/sorority if you refuse to drink under 21?

<p>Not all fraternities/sororities haze or require you to drink (at my university, hazing is strictly against university policies and anyone who participates in it can be placed on probation or expelled if they’re caught)–just find ones that don’t do them. I’ve heard professional frats/sororities don’t involve hazing and don’t make their members drink, since they have to keep up their professional-like reputation.</p>