<p>From my experience, it only sucks when people blow you off to go to the bar. In the college town that I am at right now, there’s not a lot of things to do. So turning 21, like anywhere else, is like a Right-of-college-Passage. I joined my sorority when I was 19 and if you weren’t 21 then the night ended at like 9:30 while everyone else went to the bar. It was totally unfair because the sorority members were like 23-26. The reason the were so old is because at that time our group was allowed to take in graduate sisters. We no longer do this. (Thank God…) </p>
<p>Anyway, I digress. People are going to drink, it’s a given. You just need to find the right group of people who will still stick by you even if you’re cradling a red solo cup all night and day.</p>