<p>First off I am going to gauge that a lot of people don’t really know much about the greek system here, and that’s fine because a lot of it is secretive and can only be discovered by joining a fraternity/sorority. I’m in a fraternity and would also like to point out that hazing is ILLEGAL. Some fraternities do it still, but it’s very hush hush and is usually not too extreme. Luckily my fraternity never hazed. </p>
<p>On to the question though it is possible to have fun without drinking. Fraternities do so much more than just party and plenty of activities which don’t require alcohol. Granted, a part of it will be drinking and if you refuse to drink because of the legal age than that may questioned. If your if you want a beer or something respond with, “No it’s good man I don’t drink”, and not "The legal drinking age is 21 and drinking is unacceptable. We have a religious pledge and he doesn’t drink, nobody pressures him to or really cares.</p>