My teacher very recently passed away. He was definitely my favorite teacher and probably the adult I had the closest relationship with other than my parents. I got him a box of chocolates+card as a thank you for all he’s done for me last week. I was going to give it to him Friday as there was a special event in my school that day. However, he was not in his classroom. I ditched a portion of the event and waited 2-3 hours for him to come but he never did.
Now I am going through Facebook and looking at all his pictures and students giving eulogies about him. I am also going through the emails he sent me, and some were quite amusing (he would predict chances of a snow day and let us have a snowball fight if school wasn’t cancelled). He was the smartest person I’ve known, willing to tutor AP Chemistry, Biology, Physics C, multivariable calculus, as well as graduating from Yale Law School. He would offer students coffee or chips if they were feeling sleepy and even made first semester easier for us so that colleges would look favorably on our mid-year transcripts (though he said he would make the second semester rigorous so we do not slack off). Small things like this made me really admire the man he was. He died in his early sixties.
One person in a Facebook group transcribed a speech he gave to the class; this is a part of it:
And every community you will ever be part of, in college or in your career, will be the same – imperfect, and in need of correction, but ultimately not totally correctable. Your role as young people is to push as hard as you can, because coming to the world with fresh eyes and clever ideas and ample energy, you can see better than anyone what is in need of correction, and do what you can to change it. But your role as adults (which you are also now, for better or for worse) is to realize when pushing harder is not going to make change happen any faster, but only frustrate you more. So then you will settle on a pace of pushing that you can sustain. But never give up pushing, however gently. Know that far more effective than a lecture or a threat is an example or an invitation. Your greatest power is not necessarily the power of persuasion. It is the power of being a living example of what you believe in.
I would really like to see what else he has written, hence the reason for this post.