<p>You could either send an update now (which wouldn’t affect your odds of admission; as you said, MIT is need-blind) or wait until after the results come out. When the financial aid office sends you your financial aid package, you can talk to them about your situation. They’re generally very good about adjusting your aid.</p>
<p>How close a relative is “relative?” If they are not in your immediate family (not your parents), I believe you can just tell them to keep the money.</p>
<p>Your aid (so far as I know) is determined by what your immediate family (mother and father) can afford. You will pay what you can, your parents will pay what they can, and then MIT will give you the rest in the form of grants and loans.</p>
<p>Bottom line is: pay what you can afford, take out some loans, MIT will pay the rest. Don’t become indebted to extended relatives over paying for MIT…</p>
<p>If anything I’ve said is wrong, someone please correct me and/or delete this post. This is just my simple understanding.</p>
<p>EDIT: On a side note, MIT makes it easy to appeal your aid statement and has no qualms about helping you get the money you need/deserve. They’ve managed to put up with my incredible blunders, I have faith that they’ll be able to help you out, too. :)</p>
<p>Much of what you say is correct. One error is a completed gift of cash from a relative would be considered an asset not income. There is a large difference in EFC from assets (5.6%) vs. income (20-47+%). A family would lose a modest amount of FA due to a completed gift made before FA forms are filled out but not a huge amount.</p>