<p>All three of you sound like children.</p>
<p>You’ve got two problems, your boyfriend and your girlfriend. I’d get rid of both of them if I was you.</p>
<p>Ya this is a bad place to ask this question considering that half the people on this board have never been kissed. Let me break down what your friend is doing</p>
<p>“My best friend talks to my boyfriend over the phone at midnight for two hours”
Shouldn’t your boyfriend be talking to you at midnight for 2 hours. I dunno seems kinda strange to me. If I had a gf that I liked I would not be talking to her best friend for 2 hours every night, not unless I was considering cheating.
“She talks to him in…sexy voice…!!?”
Well if he is reciprocating and not rejecting her advances he is basically complicit in it to, so he is basically considering cheating if he is not already. Women generally think these things through far more then men and he might not even realise what he is doing (leading her on-at least in her mind) but if this continues then forget it.<br>
“she touch him a lot when talking”
Touching escalation, i’ve always wondered if women are conscious of when they are doing this because its kinda creepy of how they all do it to men they are interested in, once you recognize this its unmistakeable. Long story short it works like this, if I want a girl to kiss me I’m not just going to go up to her and say hey lets get naked and have sex and kiss. You start with a push in the arm, if she smiles, you slowly escalate the touching to hand touching, hand holding, hand in arm, poking, hugging and THEN kissing. see I touch a girl in 7 different ways before I even attempt to kiss her, and I find most girls do this too, many guys don’t know this and they are the virgins, LOL. Seriously though if your friend is all touchy with your bf, it is only a matter of time before they are making out. Most men do not even think of this, so while she has plotted this all out, to him it will appear as something that just happened, and the next thing you know he has broken up with you.</p>
<p>“she talks to him about me a lot which is weird”
So your the object of their conversation, tsk tsk tsk. I would not say she is not your friend. I find that women are lazy in selecting mates. They’d rather date a guy who is already taken. It is known as the back street boys affect (women see other women wanting a man and all of a sudden they want a man they had no previous interest in)
“I dont know… it just gets annoying sometimes.”
It should
“She talks to me about him a lot…what he did yesterday or what not”
Sounds like I’m too late, your best bet is to call her and him out, she is already talking about him like they are newly dating. I know when you start dating all you want to do is talk about the other person and how cool they are and what they did.
Then again since they are already cheating on you behind your back maybe just let it go and find new friends. Seriously, it looks to me like your relationship is over and its only a matter of time before you find out.</p>
<p>“I TAKED to her about it and she got really angry… thank you guys
She told me how I could be her friend when I am always suspicious and jeolous…
She made me sound like the bad person today.”
Usually when people are suspicious there is a good reason to be.
“mY guy found out about this and told me to chillax and that I am still his number 1”
Did you ask him who was his number 2?
“omg I hate myself”
Now I see why he is cheating, if you hate yourself how can others love you?
"But at thte same time I cant stand to watch her flirt like that "
Don’t worry you will be out of the loop soon</p>
<p>Glennat is the only one here who seems to know what’s up. Well, him and my advice about hiring a hitman 
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<p>Y’know when I was with my ex, she’d often talk about this guy she knows. It was annoying but I didn’t care. We broke up, and like three weeks later she “fell in love with him” and they’re going out. According to a friend of mine, she was often quite touchy-feely with him (she was in HS I was in college). So yeah chances are this broad is flirting with your boyfriend. Talk to your boyfriend about it and if he doesn’t seem to change or worse, gets angry then drop his ass like a bad habit </p>
<p>edit: Nevermind I saw your post above. Tell him to ■■■■ of your life, he sounds like a ******.</p>
<p>Ya DHurricane is pretty much right, I cannot imagine being in a relationship with a girl I really care about and then be talking to her best friend, letting her touchy feely me and act like it is all kosher. Mind you some men will be happy with this situation because if your a guy with a gf and the gf best friend wants to make out, then its like having 2 gfs. What normal guy would turn down 2 gfs? In fact if a guy has 2 gfs he gets high 5 from his buddies. </p>
<p>Just cut the string honey, don’t allow him to embarrass you in front of everybody by being known as the girl who got cheated on with her best friend. The only thing I ponder is if you should find a new best friend or not. Because seriously, any girl could potential steal your bf if she was attracted to him enough, just like if my friend dated a super hot chick, and she showed signs of interest to me, I’m try to steal her for selfish reasons(hey just being honest).</p>
<p>glennnat mr/mrs KNOW<em>IT</em>ALL.
start ur own agony aunt column mr/mrs been kissed many times .</p>
<p>But seriously, I want to know what this “sexy voice” sounds like.
You know who has an awesome voice? Robin Tunney (the girl who played Sarah in The Craft).</p>
<p>u got a playa playa on ur hands…</p>
<p>lose him. asap. if you don’t see any progress…soon.</p>
<p>Correct…do not accuse. just ask. Tell her it makes you uncumfortable.</p>
<p>lol, sexy voice</p>
<p>Lose both of them. I’ve been the “other” girl before and you definitely don’t sound like the kind of girl who can deal with all this drama.</p>
<p>you sure sound like a homewrecker </p>
<p>Maybe they should put her on Extreme Makeover 8)</p>
<p>I’m riding the “Have a threesome in the bathroom of Chipotle while listening to Bob Marley saying things you don’t understand while you’re sober, that you sure as hell do not understand while inebriated off of some NYC Diesel” Wagon.</p>
<p>Karabee it’s : cool : (without the spaces) not 8)</p>
<p>if you were then you woulda known that </p>
<p>@DCHurricane: You were referring to me? Just because I was the “other” girl doesn’t mean I wrecked them =P</p>
<p>No, no, we weren’t assuming that you brought mass complication, heartbreak, tears, and possibly suicide to many people’s lives… no not at all…</p>
<p>:cool:</p>
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<p>QFT</p>
<p>And don’t tell your bf to stop…he won’t.</p>
<p>Guys something happened today.
he broke up with me.
I just couldnt break up with him because I loved him.
i cried all night. my eyes all puffed and I couldnt go to school to face him and her
I asked him why he is doing this but he didnt tell me why
My girlfriend is not talking to me
i am so embarassed. My parents want to talk with me but i feel like i have to hide.
All school kids found out about it. I dont know how they did but whatever.
i feel so bad</p>
<p>^ collegenewb, He’ll probably regret of losing you months or years from now.
:)</p>