<p>Don’t feel bad. If it was meant to be, it wouldn’t have ended. Try not to think about it. Give some time. When you feel ready, talk to him and ask him why exactly he decided to end things. You should consider talking to your parents… they’ve got a heck of a lot of experience with this I’m sure.</p>
<p>And most importantly… just give things time. That’s the only way you’ll heal.</p>
<p>@collegenewb: Don’t wallow for too long. Focus on the positives =)</p>
<p>for the poster who told you that you should have a “threesome” </p>
<p>That plan is out of the window. Time to turn to a plan B. What is plan b btw?</p>
<p>I second everyone who’s said he sounds like a jerk anyhow. Good Riddance (trust me, you’ll look back on this and laugh; most of us do when thinking of bad dating choices).</p>
<p>Try talking to your friend again, telling her you were feeling insecure and you’re sorry about the accusations. If she’s a real friend, she’ll accept the apology and help you get over the guy.</p>
<p>Sorry to hear that he dumped you. He probably did you a favor. It sounds like your “best friend” and your boyfriend deserve each other. Keep your head up high and remember that living well is your best revenge. </p>
<p>And don’t even think about being “best friends” with that girl again! Be nice and polite, but keep her at a distance.</p>
<p>Well, does this mean you are now single?</p>
<p>If so, hey baby, what is your number? Let me hit you up some time. :)</p>
<p>One thing I actually loved hearing from a friend when I was feeling sorry for myself about being dumped: Congrats!! You’re single, and free from this jerk! Now you can go to parties and meet cute guys and flirt all you want and not worry about this jerk holding you back. 
I wouldn’t recommend it, but seems that awil430 already wants to hit you up for your number.</p>
<p>But on another note, going through a breakup really does suck, but just look at it as a learning experience. Also, from what you were saying, I think you had a right to be suspicious, and this guy’s response (“chill, you’re my number 1”) seemed a little shallow and insensitive. When I’ve been jealous in the past my guy’s been very good at making me feel better, and I with him.</p>
<p>So, perfect remedy. Listen to Beyonce/Destiny’s Child and Lady Gaga. Get some new hot clothes, some sexy lingerie. Go to school looking fabulous with an awesome smile on your face and show that loser that you’re awesome without him.</p>
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<p>congratulations on reading such a complex social signal</p>
<p>“Guys something happened today.
he broke up with me.”
I thought I told you to leave this loser long time ago.
“I just couldnt break up with him because I loved him.
i cried all night. my eyes all puffed and I couldnt go to school to face him and her”
Relax its only high school there are other people out there, nobody likes clingy people
“I asked him why he is doing this but he didnt tell me why”
…Because he wants the other girl, why, because he thinks she is better looking or nicer in someway that you are not and there is nothing you can change about it.
“My girlfriend is not talking to me”
Well its official your gf is dirty B with an Itch
“i am so embarassed. My parents want to talk with me but i feel like i have to hide.”
You should even the score, if your bf and bff embarassed you by cheating, you should go back to school and make a big scene, slap him across the face and toss some drink in her face infront of everybody, that ought to take those smug looks of their face.
“All school kids found out about it. I dont know how they did but whatever.
i feel so bad”
Get even this means war, I am a master of dirty dating war, I will help you get revenge, LOL. They found out about it because the girl went bragging to everybody about it, thats how.</p>
<p>I sense ■■■■■…</p>