Instead of listing scholarships and general totals, can you calculate NET COST? For that, you need to calculate
(Tuition, fees, room, board) - (grants, scholarships) = …
Do not count any loan. Do not count books, transportation, or miscellaneous.
Can you list net cost for each option?
Then can you give us an idea of your mother’s budget for your college? (from income& savings, NOT loans, although right now savings may be use to survive and no longer be available…)