@southernfemmom … I get it. It would be so hard to send my kid without seeing the school. I was thinking if our family was in this situation what we would do. My kid has talked about bs for years and dislike her private school so in her mind it would be worth the chance. I think we would have gone for it knowing that if it didn’t work out she could always apply elsewhere for the next year or do a local option.
We actually talked about that last year when we were choosing. There is always the chance that even after revisits are done that actually attending a school may mean it is not a great fit.
Good luck with your choices. Off to look what her options are. ?