<p>my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months…both 18…he says he loves me and is crazy about me.
now that the background info is out of the way lol, im leaving to college 3 hours away on thursday…and he’s acting like it doesnt matter i guess? o_O
llike i want to hang out with him everyday and stuff (i didnt tell him that bec i thought it would be a natural thing to want to do) but he doesn’t ask to see me…we’ve gone on dates but i always had to ask, “hey what are you doing on this day?”…he used to ask me first…
well anyway, i asked yesterday what his schedule looked like and he said he was freee and blahhh.
and we plan to meet on saturday for a movie and he’s said yessss with a smiley face lol.</p>
<p>well anyway, he goes on facebook and writes on another girls wall and says “volleyball?”…and then she says yea im free saturday and tuues. and then he says “ughh… saturday no good, next wed ,maybe”.
i just think iit was so rude the way he ughed friday as if it’s a task to seee me!
and whats making me even madder is that wednes is the day before i leave him and i wanted to spend the day/night with him
and on top of that!!! im a varsity volleyball player! why doesnt he ever ask me to play when i constantly make comments that i feel like playing??</p>
<p>i already asked him if he wants to make the relationship work despite our distance and he said yea and that he really wants to visit me…</p>
<p>also, when he hasnt spoken to me for long periods of time (like 2pm to 11am the next day) be/c he’s runs and works!! i dont mind it but its like, hellloooo i exist tooo. i just feel kind of hurt :/</p>
<p>It’s high school. It’s all about if you’re happy in your relationship or not, there isn’t any pressure. If you like him, then stick this through, if you are having doubts, now’s your chance to get out of it.</p>
<p>i just dont want to break up with him for stupid reasons…i mean last friday we spent the day in LA walking around and having fun but like…then idk i just feel distant from him right now</p>
<p>no offense, but as a guy, i wouldn’t walk a girlfriend like you. you seem to be offended by very minor things. it’s high school. your boyfriend has his own life which doesn’t revolve around you. you can’t expect him to read your mind so if you feel like he’s being rude, just talk to him instead of whining.</p>
<p>I would pretend to be mad at him, not answering text or call. Until he finally apologizes and then you ask if that you want to have a talk. Talk things out.</p>
<p>before i talk to him i like to make sure my feelings are justified.
i mean about 2 weeks ago, we talked on the phone about meeting on a tuesday to go to see a local artist perform…we spoke the night before about it.
anyway, i changed around my whole freakin schedule to meet him the next day and then he didnt text me for the whole day…so I text him at like 5pm…saying hey the show starts at 6pm remember? just wondering if you still planned to go.
he texts back at like 9pm! saying oooh i wish you would’ve told me earlier be/c i would’ve love to go o_O
i just dropped it there be/c i was so confused that he would act that we never had a discussion about it and he was the one that said let me know if you’re still busy with your friend, if not we should go.
now my best friend is leaving for college too and i missed my last opportunity to hang out with her. Inever told him that i fellt kind of hurt? be/c he seemed like he didnt even know what he did wrong.
he’s so confusing.</p>
<p>Save yourself some time because this relationship is over. You need way to much in a relationship to make this one work. He has already replaced you even before you have left. I know it is painful but is will be worse if you keep trying to make this work.</p>
<p>He seems like a guy who isn’t really around his phone a lot and likes to hang out with other friends. I don’t think you should worry about it too much. It seems like you expect him to know that you always change things around for him even though you’ve admitted that you don’t usually tell him that stuff. How is he supposed to know?</p>
<p>I think you’ve gotten to the point where your expectations of how you want your boyfriend to act has gotten too high. Stick with it a few more weeks, then make a decision.</p>
<p>I’d disagree. I know you still love him and stuff, so have a talk. After that talk, if you see the boyfriend doesn’t cherish you anymore, don’t be hesitate to drop.</p>
<p>I think you might be reading a bit too much into the facebook post. I always do an “ughh” on Facebook whenever someone asks to hang out on certain days but I can’t make it due to prior plans, even if I’m really happy about what I’m going to do instead of hanging out with them. Does this make sense?</p>
<p>I don’t know what to say about the other info you gave =/ Good luck working it out!!!</p>
<p>His life doesn’t revolve around you. Sure, you guys are dating and you may love each other, but you can’t expect him to stand by his cell phone all day just waiting for you to text him.</p>
with a smiley face lol.</p>