<p>You know they say…learn to say no to a girl so it lets you know you’re in charge? Same principle?</p>
<p>no, getting a job is</p>
<p>No it isn’t, if you get a job most likely you will be working under someone.</p>
<p>No one else? Cool, guess I’m right.</p>
<p>I actually agree with the OP’s stance on volunteering.</p>