Some friendly, oft repeated advice: unless your DD has a happy-making Plan B (e.g. stay at the local public or whatever), broaden your list to include schools with meaningfully higher admit rates. To be even more specific, adding, say, Lawrenceville is not broadening the list. Check the Hidden Gems threads but note that even many of these are now well under 20% admit rate.
Point is if the plan is BS or bust, you want to broaden the list meaningfully.